Do you get flash insights of actions to take that seem to come out of nowhere? Perhaps they are minute hunches or urges that feel odd in the moment but are compelling just the same. Do you act on them?
I remember once driving past an office supply store in an unfamiliar neighborhood and thinking to myself “Oh, I think I’ll stop there to buy X.” – so I pulled in the lot and while in the store looking for X, I found Y, which was something I needed to solve a particular dilemma that I had forgotten about. Today, I don’t even remember the X and Y products. But what I do remember with great clarity, is the power of that instance of following the inner guidance that convinced me to go into the store.
Since then I have had zillions of those experiences and I try to remain open to receiving them more and more. They continue to amaze me and when I allow them, my life flows with ease.
I had one of those experiences after publishing my very first post on this blog last week. I am quite a thorough controller planner, so I had indeed devised a plan to get a few “good” blog posts under my belt and then somehow get my top mentor, Chris Brogan to read it. My plan was to try to add him to my LinkedIn network with the hope that he would get wind of my blog.
For those who don’t know of Chris Brogan, he is a marketing and social media genius and one of the world’s top bloggers. Check out his book Trust Agents (disclosure: this is an affiliate link, so I make a buck if you decide to purchase it after checking it out on amazon)
Back to the story of the night I launched my blog…
I didn’t follow my plan. Why? Because a flash of a better plan came to me….
I trusted it; I decided I would allow the possibility of it; I mustered the courage; and I acted on it.
My original plan paled in comparison to my spark of inspiration that took me where I didn’t expect to go – out on a limb to ask for something…something big.
I not only got what I asked for, but I got far more that I could have imagined! I am a follower of Chris Brogan on Twitter and being the kind of open and generous guy that he is, he followed me back. I took a chance and sent him a direct message through Twitter asking him to “make my day” by commenting on the blog I had launched that day. Not only did he read my blog and comment…but he was the very first person to do so!
And if that was not enough, he sent a tweet to over 95,000 of his followers welcoming me to blogging, along with a link to my blog. Can you say “dream come true?”
Actually, it was beyond what I could have ever dreamed! That’s the beauty of this phenomenon. When we are receptive and follow the inner guidance; when we ask for something – we often get so much more than we asked for or expected. Even if I would have tried to “plan” that specific scenario, I know I could not have orchestrated the timing and perfection of it. Only the alignment of intention and openness could accomplish that.
Here’s the Process:
- Open to the bigger-than-your-intellectual-self guidance that is available (this means trust what we often call “intuition”)
- Run it through your brain cells just long enough to assess that it’s not too “out there” or truly dangerous
- Accept the guidance presented (even if it’s not part of your plan)
- Get okay with asking, doing, etc. (especially asking)
- Take the ction
- Fasten your seatbelt
- Dance a jig!
What is your experience with following (or not following) your inner guidance? What business benefits have you experienced when you followed an out-of-the-blue hunch?
I’d love to hear your stories.
Hi, Christine. Great idea for a blog! I'm wondering how you would suggest handling having insights or ideas that are hard to bring to top management. Often we have wonderful ideas for increasing business, employee relations, etc., but upper management is hard to approach. Any suggestions, or ideas?
Hi Meg,
Thanks for your comment. Your question hits upon one of the most difficult
business relationship issues and has no easy answer. The key is the quality
of your relationship with upper management. Obviously, diplomacy is in
order. I would suggest trying to relate your ideas to something positive in
the company that is already working well (if you can think of anything) –
and present your idea as an expansion of that. It may also be a step-by-step
process of hinting at pieces of a new concept one morsel at a time with the
willingness to let go of receiving credit for the idea. I once had a boss
with whom I would shoot the breeze on a regular basis casually throwing out
ideas for things I wanted to see happen. A day or two later he would
announce “his” new idea to be implemented. I had no problem with that since
it made my job easier. I'm planning an article directed at owners inviting
them to take a look at their willingness to see their blind spots. Thanks
for the question. I hope this helps.
Dear Christine,
Thankyou for blogging about this so important feature that operates in my life on a daily basis. It is what makes life fun! As an artist, I am continually allowing for input from as much of myself as possible. With your support as a Marketing Consultant, I have had more confidence in paying attention to signs such as marching dogs on the street while wondering: “am i on the right track with my dog pillows?” and countless other signs, often pertaining to dog art.
thanks for being here!
Tobin
http://www.handpaintedanimalpillows.wordpress.com/
Hey Tobin,
You are actually one of the best role models for following inner knowing! The creative process requires it. And of course business development and positioning are both very creative processes. Here's to puppy pillows!
Thanks Christine! I love the term “positioning”. It is so important in the world of social networking. I ordered the book by Chris Brogan, “Trust Agents.” I bought a used copy, hope you still get affiliate fees for it! Tell us more about Affiliating in your blog sometime?
Thanks Christine! I love the term “positioning”. It is so important in the world of social networking. I ordered the book by Chris Brogan, “Trust Agents.” I bought a used copy, hope you still get affiliate fees for it! Tell us more about Affiliating in your blog sometime?